Yes, I know I said that I would continue with the Incremental Progress series with my next post. It is coming, probably over or near the weekend, as that seems to be my approximate unwritten schedule. But I would be remiss if I failed to mark today of all days somehow on here.
The twentieth of July, two thousand and seven. A date which I shall be reminded of for as long as I live. The date that I define as the abrupt end of my childhood and the beginning of my current identity. The date which is a strong contender for the absolute worst day of my life, and would win hands down save for the fact that I slipped out of consciousness due to overwhelming pain, and remained in a coma through the next day.
It is the day that is marked in my calendar simply as “Victory Day”, because on that day, I did two things. First, I beat the odds on what was, according to my doctors, a coin toss over whether I would live or die. Second, it was the day that I became a survivor, and swore to myself that I would keep surviving.
I was in enough pain and misery that day, that I know I could have very easily given up. My respiratory system was already failing, and it would have been easy enough to simply stop giving the effort to keep breathing. It might have even been the less painful option. But as close as I already felt to the abyss, I decided I would go no further. I kept fighting, as I have kept fighting ever since.
I call this date Victory Day in my calendar, partly because of the victory that I won then, but also because each year, each annual observance, is another victory in itself. Each year still alive is a noteworthy triumph. I am still breathing, and while that may not mean much for people who have never had to endure as I have endured, it is certainly not nothing.
I know it’s not nothing, partly because this year I got a medal for surviving ten years. The medals are produced by one of the many multinational pharmaceutical corporations on which I depend upon for my continued existence, and date back to a few decades ago, when ten years was about the upper bound for life expectancy with this disease.
Getting a medal for surviving provokes a lot of bizarre feelings. Or perhaps I should say, it amplifies them, since it acts as a physical token of my annual Victory Day observances. This has always been a bittersweet occasion. It reminds me of what my life used to be like before the twentieth July two thousand and seven, and of the pain that I endured that day I nearly died, that I work so diligently to avoid. In short, it reminds me why I fight.